Interesting thread. 55 years old white male here, who think of himself as progressist and very open minded.
I really think some institutions needs to be changed to remove systemic racism found in them. Really, things needs to change.
That said...
Who
really believes a
fantasy game is to be similar - and that it needs to be judged - with real life values?
Who
really thinks the goal in life is to ruin all your friends and take all the cash ? (Monopoly)
Who
really believes you need to always flee from your enemy instead of fighting back? (Pacman)
Who
really think Guess Who? is a game that wrongly uses stereotypes?
Who
really think that Cards Against Humanity will make you evil, a serial killer or dictator?
Are you also offended by some Halloween dressing up?
These are just games, playing them is not in any way changing how I really think.
*sigh*
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These are just games, folks. If that becomes a problem, I'm too old for this. D&D (and especially Ravenloft) is about the fight of good vs evil, and Ravenloft even more about stereotypical gothic Shakespearian tropes.
Angels are good and demons are bad. Do we need to change that? What's the use of drow elves or Menzoberranzan in D&D if half of them are good aligned and make pink cup cakes on Sunday?
I once designed a depraved priest that was the founder of an orphanage so he could get his fresh meat. Do I think all priest are pedophiles? Of course not, I was playing on an extreme and ugly rare case, but I never thought that was reality. I never thought people reading that article would think so either.
Hazlik is gay
and evil, is that too a combination that needs to be fixed? Do we need to make him good, or woman-loving? That would be silly, of course, as nobody think the two are related.
I do not mind adjustments as we go along over time, as it was said about women in D&D over the years, but when Strahd is suddenly everything-sexual (which anyway is a position many people can relate to, as you all know

), or similar strange changes, just because the idea is in fashion, or to gain cheezy respect points for purity, they loose me.
Vistani ? Put a disclaimer that real life wanderers are absolutely not like this, and perhaps change a few things to make them more sympathetics, if needed. First the idea to turn them into halflings (well known thieves) was a bad one, anyway. As for other humans, there are good and helpful vistanis, as well as crooked and thieving ones, but they are always mysterious and they should makes you feel uneasy as you do not know where they really stand (as the game explored well in the various ways vistani were portrayed in Ravenloft).
You are really offended by orcs and drows? Really ? Get out of my fantasy game. I do not think black skinned people are depraved, or that people close to the wild are brute and idiots that have nothing to teach me. (If drows are green or fushia, is that OK?

)
If you are eventually offended by something, or do not like something, just edit it from your game.